छेड़ोगे तो छोड़ेंगे नहीं
We read some where this Hindi statement छेड़ोगे तो छोड़ेंगे नहीं. It seems me a very interesting statement because everything is more or less is associated with this statement in our professional, social & family life.
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However, as much as we remember this phrase is written to make a news topic more attractive for the statements of the Defence Minister of India Mr Raj Nath Singh who gave several such statements in press conferences.
Nevertheless, if we look at a broad level beyond the army 🪖 encouragement, then we find that this statement is already in application in our professional, social & family life.
In professional life we always find few co-workers forming a small group, although it is always recommended not to do grouping to contribute in retaining pleasent & healthy environment of a work place. But in reality this does not happen at work places.
You are a good person till you are supporting without asking for a recompensation. The day you ask for recompensation, you become a bad person.
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Or you have to be a good negotiator from beginning, thus your co-workers already know, from beginning, that you don't do anything in favor free of cost.
Situation is bad when your co-workers forms a small group and start to work against you with a mind set of छोड़ेंगे नहीं. Normally administration is always in that side where are more people.
We understand that everyone is under pressure and wants to do everything to retain the job & avoid to become jobless. Many others are under pressure to achieve a job position of higher category than they have at current.
For this neck cut situation, you feel cheated when you find credits of your contributions at work place has not been given to you but others use those credits for their promotions & making a good image in professional environment.
Of course, you reach a situation when you start to think for छेड़ोगे तो छोड़ेंगे नहीं. Of course, your fight is against a mini group of several co-workers & in this case you have to take each step very carefully. Is it happening with you? You can write ✍️ in comment section or send us an email your opinion & we will include it if it is appropriate.
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In social life we face similar problem. At many places neighbors are not so good or you are from different race, cast or country or black & white skin colour issues, the people creates problem and start to do comments. Not only one, they invite other to join their activity. You try your best to tolerate & avoid, but they will after you with thinking छोड़ेंगे नहीं. The situation reaches at a stage when you don't have any option than छेड़ोगे तो छोड़ेंगे नहीं. Although there is a high risk because of numbers of people involved in the action. Many people say, of course, you can avoid but how? Can you share your comment with us? We incorporate it if it is appropriate.
Family is most closest part of a life. Family members & relatives are considered to do everything always in your favour but, in fact, this is not a situation. छेड़ोगे तो छोड़ेंगे नहीं applies in a family life also.
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