पकरुआ शदी या जबरिया शादी

दूल्हे का अपहरण, फिर बंदूक की नोंक पर दुल्हन से शादी करने के लिए मजबूर किया जाना बिहार के पश्चिमी हिस्सों और भारत में पूर्वी उत्तर प्रदेश राज्य में एक लोकप्रिय घटना है।  यह बोलचाल की भाषा में पखेरूआ शादी या जबरिया शादि के रूप में जाना जाता है, जिसमें योग्य कुंवारे लोगों को दुल्हन के परिवार द्वारा अगवा कर लिया जाता है और बाद में जबरदस्ती शादी कर ली जाती है।  

यह भारी दहेज की लागत से बचने के लिए किया जाता है।

अचानक मुझे पकरुआ शदी या जबरिया शादि पर ध्यान क्यों जाता है और इस पर एक वीडियो बनाया है। एक कारण है।  इसे जानने के लिए आपको वीडियो देखना होगा।

मुझे अभी भी एक घटना याद है जो मेरे बचपन के समय में जबरन शादी को लेकर हुई थी।

जन्म से मैं एक शहर का लड़का हूं, यानी मैंने एक शहर में जन्म लिया, एक शहर में स्कूली शिक्षा की, शहर में समय बिताया, एक शहर में अपनी पहली नौकरी शुरू की, अलग-अलग शहरों में सब कुछ।  इसलिए मुझे गांव की राजनीति सहित परंपराओं, जीवन शैली के बारे में कम जानकारी है।  लेकिन कुछ ऐसा होता है जो मुझे आज भी याद है।

मेरे पिता अक्सर गाँव की यात्रा करते थे क्योंकि उनका जन्म गाँव में हुआ था।  उनकी यात्रा ने उन्हें अपने बचपन के दोस्तों से मिलने और उन खेतों को प्रबंधित करने के अवसर दिए, जो उन्होंने 50-50 उत्पादन के बंटवारे पर खेती से संबंधित कार्य करने के लिए श्रमिकों को किराए पर दिए थे।

गर्मियों में जब हमारे स्कूल बंद होते थे, तो हम हर साल उनके साथ गाँव देखने और दो सप्ताह तक गाँव की जीवन शैली का आनंद लेने के लिए उनके साथ यात्रा करते थे, इस प्रकार गाँव के साथ संबंध बनाए रखते थे।

गाँव में विवाह के आयोजन के लिए ग्रीष्म ऋतु एक अच्छी अवधि है।  हमारे गाँव में, हमें हमेशा शादी की पार्टी में आने के लिए आमंत्रित किया जाता था।  मैंने भी भाग लिया।

गाँव में शादी एक बड़े त्योहार की तरह होती है।  पूरा गाँव दूल्हा और दुल्हन परिवार को खाद्य सामग्री, भोजन तैयार करने, बिस्तर, कवरशीट आदि का समर्थन करता है ताकि वे बाहर से आने वाले आमंत्रित लोगों को अच्छी तरह से शामिल कर सकें।

अब आपको यह बताने का समय कि मैंने एक दिन क्या देखा है।

 गाँव में मेरे घर के करीब एक मंदिर है।  परिवार और दोस्तों को शादी के कुछ रस्मों को निभाने के लिए दूल्हा या दुल्हन के साथ मंदिर जाना पड़ता है।  अपने घर की छत से हम सभा और नृत्य आदि देख सकते हैं।

एक साल मैंने देखा कि लोग बहुत तेज संगीत पर चिल्ला रहे हैं और नाच रहे हैं।  मैंने अपने एक भतीजे से अनुरोध किया कि वह मुझे दिखाए कि मंदिर में क्या चल रहा था।  हम उधर गए।  मैंने काफी दिलचस्प घटना देखी जो मुझे अपने जीवन के इतने सालों बाद भी याद है।

दूल्हा रो रहा था।  दुल्हन मुस्कुरा रही थी।  

कई लोग दूल्हे को जबरन पकड़ रहे थे और उससे कह रहे थे कि शादी के लिए जो भी कह हुआ था, वह उसे करे।  वह बाध्य था।  केवल पुरुष ही नहीं, महिलाएँ भी विवाह के रस्मों को पूरा करने के लिए उसे मजबूर करने में भाग ले रही थीं।

यह काफी दिलचस्प था कि महिलाएं उसे कह रही थीं "यह तुम्हारी शादी है। कुछ नहीं होगा।"

मैं एक बच्चा था, इसलिए मैं बहुत अच्छी तरह से समझ नहीं पाया कि क्या चल रहा था। क्योंकि शादी की ज्यादातर पार्टियाँ जो मैंने अटेंड कीं, मैंने देखा था कि दूल्हा और दुल्हन दोनों मुस्कुरा रहे थे और खुश मूड में थे। अगले दिन सुबह दुल्हन का परिवार दुल्हन के साथ रोया जब दुल्हन दूल्हे के घर जाने के लिए घर से निकल रही थी।  लेकिन यहां दूल्हा रो रहा था।

इतने सालों के बाद मुझे अब पता चला है कि वह पकरुआ शदी या जबरिया शादी थी।

आपको क्या लगता है कि पकरुआ या जबरिया थानेदार समाज के लिए अच्छा है?

क्या आप ऐसे किसी मामले को जानते हैं?

यदि आप पकरुआ या जबरिया थाने में फंसे हैं तो आप क्या करेंगे?

आप अपना जवाब कमेंट सेक्शन में लिख सकते हैं।

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Forced Marriage Bihar #PakaruahShaadi #JabariaShaadi

Groom kidnapping, then forced on gun point to marry to bride is a popular phenomenon in the western parts of Bihar, and eastern Uttar Pradesh states in India. It is colloquially known as Pakaruah shaadi or Jabaria shaadi wherein eligible bachelors are abducted by the bride's family and later forcefully married. It is done to avoid heavy dowry costs.

Suddenly why I am focused on the Pakaruah shaadi or Jabaria shaadi and make a video on it. There is a reason. You have to watch the video to knowing it.

I still remember an event which occured in my childhood time regarding forced marriage.

By birth I am a city boy i.e. I born in a city, did schooling in a city, spent times in city, started my first job in a city, everything in different cities. Hence I am having less knoweldge about traditions, life style including politics of the village. But something happens which I still remember.

My father used to travel to a village frequently because he was born in the village. His travels gave him opportunities to meet his childhood friends and managing the fields which he had rented to workers for performing agricultur related works on 50-50% production sharing.

In summer when our schools were closed, we also travelled with him every year for viewing the village and enjoying the village life style for two weeks, thus maintaining the relation with village.

Summer is a good period for organizing marriage in the village. In our village, we were always invited for attending the marriage party. I also attended many.

In village the marriage is like a big festival. Whole village supports the groom and bride family with food materials, food preparation, bed, coversheets etc so that they can attend very well the invited people coming from outside.

Now the time to tell you what I have seen one day.

Close to my house in the village there is a temple. Family and friends has to visit the temple with the groom or bride to perform some ritual steps of the marriage. From the roof of our house we can see the gathering and dance etc.

One year I saw people are shouting and dancing on very loud music. I requested one of my nephews to show me what was going on the temple. We went there. I saw quite interesting event which I still remember after so many years of my life.

Groom was weeping. Bride was smilling. Many people was forcely helding the groom and asking him to perform whatever prist was telling to perform for the marriage. He was bound to perform. Not only men, women were also participating in forcing him for perfoming the ritual steps of the marriage.

It was quite interesting that the women were saying him "Donot weep. It is your marriage. Nothing will happen.".

I was a child, hence I could not understand very well what was going on. But I was supprised because most of marriage parties which I attended, I had seen that the groom and bride both were smilling and in happy mood. Except, in next day morning family of bride wept along the bride when she was leaving the house to go to the groom house. But here the groom was weeping.

After so many years I come to know now that that was the Pakaruah shaadi or Jabaria shaadi.

What do you think the Pakaruah or Jabaria shaadi is good for the society?

Do you know any such case? 

If you are trapped in the Pakaruah or Jabaria shaadi what you will do?

You can write your answer in comment section.

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How to put Installed Android studio icon on Ubuntu desktop.

Andriod Studio is a popular software for computer programmer for planning and writting codes of a product.

Suppose you want to develop and launch a App, then you can take the support of the Android Studio to develop your product.

You can launch your final App in the Google marketplace at a nominal one time fees of $30.

Most of the App has two versions: Free and paid versions. The paid versions have more options for users than a free version.

Millions of People can download your App from the Google marketplace for their use. Many of them may buy the paid versions.

Android Studio is very simple to use. You can read and follow the steps provided by the Google and can develop an App. It is not necessary that you should have an university degree in informatics. Yes, you have to read Google step by step tutorials and execute them with the Android Studio.

I myself achieve to develop on computer a simple App, then transfer in in my own mobile phone for testing if it works. I have a unversity degree in biology which is far away from informatics. 

I can say at this moment that the Android app facilitates very simple technical options which any one without or with eduction can use it free of costs and tranfer an unique idea into a real product.

The Google marketplace supports to the App developer in finding users and the business clients.

One of the issues is to bring the Android Studio icon on desktop or sidebars to make easy access to it. This is solved in this video.

Watch the video. Any question or your answer you write in comment section. Audience and I will read it. May be it contributes in solving a Google App related question.

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How are you? How to say in Hindi #AprenderHindi

In my previous video I have explained about the difference between Namaskar and Namaste.  It is equivalent to saying Hello.

 Today we have to talk about the topic of saying "How are you?" in Hindi.

 Hi!  How are you?.  Hello!  How are you?

 In the Spanish language it is difficult to identify the speaker if we do not listen to his or her tone of voice. 

How are you?  Now I ask you whether the speaker is a man or a woman.  You can write your answer in the comments section.

 I will not be able to identify if I do not see the face of the speaker or hear the tone of voice of the speaker. 

 Not so in Hindi.  In Hindi there are four statements:

  आप कैसे हैं aap kaise hain

 आप कैसी हैं aap kaisi hain

 तुम कैसे हो tum kaise ho

 तुम कैसी हो tum kaisi ho

 To learn how to pronounce these phrases correctly, I ask you to watch the video and practice a lot.  You can also contact me to asking for help in learning to pronounce.

 In these 4 sentences, there are two that indicate that you are asking to a girl or woman.

 Two others indicate that you are asking to a boy or a man or a man.

 One indicates that you are respectfully asking to a girl or woman.

 One indicates that you are asking respectfully to a boy or man or boy.

 Do you know them?  You can write your answer in the comments section.

 In the Hindi language it is very easy to identify the person without seeing their face or hearing the tone of their voice.

 There is a difference between the tone of voice of the male and female gender.

 Now we are going to see the answer to each question.

 आप कैसी हैं aap kaisi hain and तुम कैसी हो tum kaisi ho These phrases are used for asking to a girl or woman.

 आप कैसे हैं aap kaise hain and तुम कैसे हो tum kaise ho These are to ask to a boy or man or male question.

 आप कैसी हैं aap kaisi hain It is respectfully asking to a girl or woman.

 आप कैसे हैं aap kaise hain This phrase to asking with respect to a boy or man or male.

 Two more sentences are there.  They are used when we do not want to add respect.

 I hope you have learned some Hindi.

 In the next tutorial I will explain more Hindi phrases and grammar.

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Ram Singh Charlie Hindi Film Review #RamSinghCharlie

Ram Singh Charlie is a bollywood hindi movie.

It is based on the life of an artist who plays the role of the Joker in the Circus but he becomes unemployed because the owner of the Circus decides to close it.

Economic loss in business of the Circus is the main reason. The kids of today like to spend their times by watching the television, playing video games, reading, writting and sharing on social media and the Internet.

This Joker faces tough social challenges out of the Circus for earnings money and bread. Similarly all other artists are facing. But at last he decides to open own business of the Circus using the equipments of the closed Circus.

The background scenes of the film is taken from the Calcuta city: street views, man drived rikshaw, populated area etc.

The actors of the film are recognized actors  of the hindi film industry. Their performances are good and natural, no overacting.

Ram Singh Charlie is a very slow film. It is a serious film. It did not hit my emotions. I did not cry, weep or smile at any moment during watching this movie.

I will not agree to watch again this movie if I have been invited.

The rating from myside for the movie Ram Singh Charlie is 2 out of 5.

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